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If you’re an Asian-American who grew up learning that you had to “save face” and be a “good girl,” let’s remove all the guilt, shame, and taboos to talk about the things we weren’t given permission to explore. Rather than upholding the “model minority” standard, let’s redefine what it means to be strong, courageous, and bold in a brave new world. Let’s finally have a voice after being the silent generation for too long. Join me, your host, Judy Tsuei, every week as I explore mental, emotional and physical health like never before, telling it like it is. We might shock the generation before us, but hopefully, you and I will create a more conscious way of being for the generation after us. Wherever you are in celebrating your Asian-ness, I got you. Let’s roar together. More at www.wildheartedwords.com/podcast.
F*ck Saving Face
Episode 104: Taboos Unveiled: Navigating Childhood Secrets, Cultural Clashes, and the Unspoken Realities of Pleasure with Judy Tsuei [Memoir Excerpts]
Join us for a compelling journey as Judy Tsuei shares her deeply personal experiences, unraveling childhood secrets, cultural clashes, and the complexities surrounding pleasure and taboo — as she reads an excerpt from her upcoming memoir.
In this episode, Judy takes us through poignant moments that shaped her understanding of family, identity, and the unspoken dynamics that influenced her early years:
The Forbidden Act - 00:12:05
Judy recounts a childhood memory where curiosity and innocence collide with cultural expectations. Secrets unfold as she navigates the boundaries of pleasure and parental disapproval, revealing the intricate web of family dynamics.
Concealed Desires - 00:13:02
As Judy grapples with societal norms, she delves into the complexities of communication within her multicultural household. Unanswered questions linger, highlighting the clash between cultural silence and personal exploration.
Awkward Discoveries - 00:14:41
In a vulnerable moment, Judy accidentally stumbles upon her parents' intimacy, challenging conventional notions of family dynamics. The unexpected encounter prompts a surreal response, blurring the lines between parental roles and personal boundaries.
Weekend Escapes - 00:17:30
Judy shares the challenges of a weekend routine, offering a glimpse into the demanding lifestyle of immigrant parents. The juxtaposition of mundane tasks and the quest for identity sets the stage for a unique coming-of-age narrative.
Video Store Chronicles - 00:21:07
In the backdrop of a video store owned by relatives, Judy unveils the realities of her adolescent world. A mix of cultural exposure and the mundane responsibilities of a family-owned business shape her perspective on relationships and societal expectations.
A Glimpse Behind the Curtain - 00:24:37
The podcast explores a hidden facet of the video store, shedding light on the adult world through Judy's observant eyes. As she grapples with newfound awareness, the podcast confronts the delicate balance between innocence and exposure.
Join us as Judy Tsuei reflects on these impactful moments, weaving a narrative that transcends cultural boundaries and delves into the universal themes of family, identity, and the pursuit of self-discovery.**
Disclaimer: This episode contains explicit content and may not be suitable for all audiences.
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