F*ck Saving Face
If you’re an Asian-American who grew up learning that you had to “save face” and be a “good girl,” let’s remove all the guilt, shame, and taboos to talk about the things we weren’t given permission to explore. Join me, your host, Judy Tsuei, every week as I explore mental, emotional, and physical health like never before, telling it like it is. We might shock the generation before us, but hopefully, you and I will create a more conscious way of being for the generation after us. Life may not always be pretty, but it is indeed beautiful — make your story beautiful today. More at www.judytsuei.com.
F*ck Saving Face
Episode 131: Redefining Asian Matchmaking (and Pleasure) with Cassindy Chao
In this candid and eye-opening episode of F*ck Saving Face, Judy Tsuei sits down with Asian matchmaker Cassindy Chao to explore the complexities of love, relationships, and intimacy within the Asian American community. Cassindy shares her journey from a high-powered career in finance to a purpose-driven path as a matchmaker, helping people unlearn cultural conditioning and find authentic love.
They discuss the blind spots many Asian clients face, from people-pleasing tendencies to stereotypes around desirability, and dive into the importance of boundaries, self-discovery, and vulnerability in relationships. This episode isn't just about matchmaking—it's about breaking free from the performance-based expectations that keep us from experiencing true connection. Tune in for raw, honest insights, a bit of humor, and a whole lot of heart.
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