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F*ck Saving Face
If you’re an Asian-American who grew up learning that you had to “save face” and be a “good girl,” let’s remove all the guilt, shame, and taboos to talk about the things we weren’t given permission to explore. Rather than upholding the “model minority” standard, let’s redefine what it means to be strong, courageous, and bold in a brave new world. Let’s finally have a voice after being the silent generation for too long. Join me, your host, Judy Tsuei, every week as I explore mental, emotional and physical health like never before, telling it like it is. We might shock the generation before us, but hopefully, you and I will create a more conscious way of being for the generation after us. Wherever you are in celebrating your Asian-ness, I got you. Let’s roar together. More at www.wildheartedwords.com/podcast.
F*ck Saving Face
Episode 134: [Step 7] Grades Don’t Equal Brilliance — Rewriting Success as an Asian American Mom & Coach
In this heart-opening episode, Judy Tsuei dives deep into the journey of embracing her neurodivergence, parenting with purpose, and breaking free from the perfection-driven mindset ingrained in many Asian American households.
From learning to celebrate milestones (big and small) to redefining success beyond traditional metrics like grades and degrees, Judy shares powerful insights on raising a resourceful, self-aware child while healing her inner world.
Listen in as Judy reflects on:
- Her late diagnosis of ADHD and how it shifted her perspective on personal success.
- Why traditional education often prioritizes obedience over creativity — and how she’s encouraging her daughter to think differently.
- The emotional toll of chasing perfectionism and how embracing imperfection can lead to genuine fulfillment.
- A touching story of connection with her daughter during a vulnerable moment, and how it led to creating their family’s core values.
- How NLP, Huna healing, and personal coaching have transformed her life — and her clients’ lives.
If you’ve ever felt trapped by expectations (be it cultural, familial, or societal) this episode will inspire you to create your own path to success. Need additional support? Check out the NLP meditations on JudyTsuei.com.
Order an early copy of "How to Disappoint Your Parents in 10 Shameless Steps: A Modern Asian American Guide" via Kickstarter: bit.ly/shamelessbook.
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